For years, I tiptoed around the world of spicy romance books, too ashamed of the stigma to fully embrace them. While I had long been curious about reading “smut,” I considered it the literary equivalent of watching porn—something that made me feel a little dirty, if I’m being honest, and that historically hasn’t always respected women or promoted healthy perspectives on intimacy. However, as times change and we move into a more sex-positive, feminist-forward era (and as I grow into my own maturity) I’ve come to realize there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying spicy romance books—or even outright smut—for countless reasons that I’ll explore.

In 2025, I’m officially letting go of that shame and embracing what brings me joy: books that bring on the chili peppers! 🌶 🥵 🔥 Because reading is reading, right? Who’s with me? Let’s get into what made me decide to change my mind about reading smut now that I’m in my 30s.